There’s a scene in the latest episode, “Oh Mamere,” of season 4 of Queen Sugar that is maddening to watch. In it, Darla Sutton (I legit had to look up her character’s last name; I’m not sure I’ve heard it uttered a single time on the show), played by fountain of youther Bianca Lawson, is sitting in a restaurant as her friend from a life long since past recounts in vivid, amused detail the night, as it turns out, that Darla was raped and her son Blue was conceived.