It's always the people who just want to be cool with everybody who will show up for anyone and everyone but you because people who are that desperate to be liked and accepted will find more value in relationships that help maintain a social hierarchy and when you're authentic you will quickly discover that you are not included in that group of everyone they want to be cool with you being true to yourself and stay handing out forces people to face what they don't like about themselves and you being true to your beliefs and values forces people to face their character and both of these things disrupt the social hierarchy share believe inspire blacks be